Melissa L. Neckers

Melissa Neckers is an attorney at Miller Johnson in the Grand Rapids office office and Chair of the Family Law Practice Group. She has been practicing law for 20 years and her practice areas include family law, mediation and adoption.

Family Law Practice

Ms. Neckers helps individuals with divorce, parenting disputes, domestic conflict, and family law matters. She represents both men and women in divorce, custody, parenting time and support cases.  She is a zealous advocate for clients and will fight for them in court if necessary.  However Ms. Neckers is also committed to not creating additional conflict and helping parties settle their issues amicably if possible.

Domestic Mediation

Domestic mediation offers couples an option to traditional divorce family law proceedings and requires fairness and equal treatment of both spouses. Ms. Neckers assists parties jointly by acting as a neutral mediator.  In direct domestic mediation, the agreements are the spouses to make. Ms. Neckers’ role is to facilitate productive discussions, help move both parties to a desired end, and, if settled, draft a written agreement. Reaching an agreement is to the benefit of all involved, including children and dependents. Through her mediation, Ms. Neckers helps divorcing spouses by reducing stress and costs associated with going to trial, and keeping perspective on the welfare and well-being of both parties.

Adoption Practice

Ms. Neckers is also the chair of Miller Johnson’s Adoption Practice Group. She works closely with birth parents or prospective adoptive parents and also works closely with adoption agencies. She reviews the Michigan adoption laws and procedures, explains birthparent or adoptive parent rights, advises on legally permissible adoption costs, reviews and negotiates adoption contracts, and advises on options for post-placement arrangements.  She represents adoptive couples, single parents, step parents and guardians.

Assisted Reproductive Technologies/Surrogacy/Gestational Carrier

Ms. Neckers also works with parties in the area of assisted reproductive technologies (ART) and gestational surrogacy. She is able to help clients work through the complex legal issues that are often involved and satisfy requirements of fertility centers.  Ms. Neckers also helps clients determine or establish parental rights once pregnancy occurs.

Professional Affiliations and Activities

Ms. Neckers is a Fellow of the Michigan State Bar Association and is a member of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine.  She also belongs to the Grand Rapids Bar Association and State Bar of Michigan where she is a member of the Family Law and Children’s Law Section and the Alternative Dispute Resolution Section. In 2015, Ms. Neckers was appointed to the Michigan Court Forms Committee’s Adoption Work Group for a second three year term.

Ms. Neckers is also on the board of directors of Legal Aid of Western Michigan and is a Fellow of the Michigan State Bar Foundation, which recognizes distinguished lawyers and supports the Foundation’s public service efforts.

Ms. Neckers was a Law Clerk for the Honorable Patrick Snyder and the Honorable James Kieffer with Circuit Court, Civil Division in Waukesha, Wisconsin

Articles and Presentations

Ms. Neckers has authored, presented or been interviewed for several articles including:

  • “Adoption, ART and paternity,” ICLE, Feb. 2016
  • “Joint legal custody nixes adoption by stepparent,” Michigan Lawyers Weekly, April 24, 2013
  • “Starting the Adoption Process,” Divorce Lawyers blog, Dec. 2012
  • “The Murky intersection Between Family Law and Bankruptcy,” Michigan Family Law Journal, co-authored with Rachel Hillegonds, 2010
  • “Family Matters, Too,” Priority Read – Business Law Update, Winter 2004

Community Activities

Ms. Neckers is a past board member with the Community Counseling and Personal Growth Ministry, DeColores Ministries in Grand Rapids and also served on the Mindshare Event Committee for the Grand Rapids Student Advancement Foundation.


Ms. Neckers received her law degree from Marquette University Law School in 1998 and her B.A. degree from Hope College in 1995.